Hey how you doing?

Hello World...

As I start to type this blog De La Soul's song "Hey How Ya Doing" is flowing thru my head. LOL!  Man. I'm sitting amongst boxes and totes and unhung pictures. LOL! I got the basics hooked up though, immediately hooked up all TVs/entertainment center, phone, WiFi, kitchen stuff. So for the most part, I'm good. I have unwrapped/unpacked some of my clothing and shoes but still need to do that.  I thought I was going to have more time to get to it since I knew I needed to get some other stuff done for our upcoming family reunion this Father's Day/Juneteenth Weekend however due to the same reunion, one of my uncles will be driving thru on the way to Texas and as is our family tradition, we stop in and spend time with the closest family member.  So I'll have my first house guest this weekend, probably today.  Therefore, I need to really re-arrange some of these boxes.  Maybe even unpack some more stuff. (whew) Welp after breakfast i'm on it.  So anyway people, these days things seem to be going great!  I decided to remove myself from a uuuuh crazy situation recently and uuuh even though my emotions are still slowly disconnecting, I'm letting my brain run this one. LOL!  I tell you what, hoooo, when you decide to connect to something, even if it's not in your best interests your emotions don't know the difference.

My lesson and piece of wisdom to you is to look out for you at all times because if you don't, no one else will.  And a motto that I picked up a few years ago is to never make someone a priority that sees you as an option and MORE importantly NEVER put yourself in the option category.  Ladies seem to do that from time to time.  It starts out as great fun but eventually turns into something else and then you have to make a decision..stay and make yourself enjoy it or leave and mourn the loss of the closeness but enjoy the fact that you are healing and opening a door for true relationship.

I am finally starting to enjoy life,  this move into this 1bdrm is another clear sign of the forward movement that is happening and I'm excited about it!

Ok that's it for now, i'm waiting for my rice to finish and then I'm getting active.

**peace and blessings*